<Group of scouting people sat round a fire>
Person 1 – I am am about to get appointed for my new role
Person 2 – well remember it is only two hours a week
Person 3 – Oh yea, but when you have eight roles it never ending
<people stare gloomily into the fire>
I am sure you have all been in that situation where people talk about their roles in scouting. The same two hours a week joke is push out and mocked by everyone who holds a current role and then the Mosting starts,
- Well I am not sure what Scout Association is going to do now, I don’t have any room left on my card for my new appointment.
- You have a night at home wow well this week I am at beavers Monday, cubs Tuesday, scouts Wednesday, district meeting Thursday, explorers Friday, camp Saturday and then Sunday I am on a helping on that training course.
- Well I could possible help on that weekend but it will be the 5 weekend in a row that I have not been at home.
I am sure you have all hear many more similar comments.
While I accept that we are struggling for leaders and there are a loads of young people on waiting list across the country does one person doing every role with a quarter of their effort and moaning about it make for a good solution.
I have one role and sometimes when I tell people this they look at you like your not doing your bit, because they have 4 or 5 roles. However my logic is that I have one role, a job and a family so I already have to split my time in to thirds. A third to Scouting a third to my job and a third to my family in each one of those thirds I commit 100% of that third to the given party. However if I have four scouting roles then you can only give 25% of your available scouting time to each role.
Now there is nothing to say that the role you have taken on won’t take up 25% of your time for example maybe you are the Explorer Leader and you become a Duke of Edinburgh Assessor well that makes sense, you can manage your time such that when you’re doing your assessor role your Explorers are there being assessed two birds one stone and all that.
Now at this point someone is going to be shouting at the screen “OK clever clogs what your solution to keeping my group running” and the answer is I don’t have one.
I have some suggestions.
The Scouting Association has been on a huge push to highlight the benefit of flexible volunteer the whole campaign with the Duchess of Cambridge has aimed to highlight that it is possible for anyone to find a small amount of time within their schedule to give to scouting.
We need to recognise that not everyone can or wants to have 10 roles and a silver wolf handing round their neck, but they are happy to come along at the start of the evening and collect the subs or run a session on something related to their job. Maybe you can find four parents who are willing to help out one week in four, with a simple rota you have help every meeting.
The key is to understand what help you need and give people exact options, people don’t like vagueness. “I need HELP I am swamped” will scare people off “I am really looking for someone to support me once a month when we do an activity outside” will give you a much better response – I wrote a post here all about asking for help.
Parents are our biggest source of help, after all it is there little darlings that are running round the room hyped on chocolate buttons and causing premature baldness in scout leaders the world over.
Again as mentioned in the item above it is about asking the right questions, when looking for help amongst parents you hope they see the benefits from scouting that their little darlings get but it is worth reminding them, hold a parents evening get them to come down and work as a team with their child to complete a challenge. Camps are usually a great way to get parents involved dad love the idea of going back to nature and event the toughest lawyer dad will be come a different person when you put them in a tent and get them muddy. The will at first always see the benefit to dropping them off and be able to do the shopping without a little person clinging on to your ankles and filling your trolly with stuff you don’t want (It is amazing what you find in a trolly when shopping with a 3 year old but that for another post), however once you have the parents engaged with the group that is when you can ask about further support you might find one or two willing to help. Maybe some will say sorry but I can only help on weekend or camps, or maybe you will get enough to get a 1 in 4 rota then you would be able to get the support you need and who knows you might find that one of those 4 parents enjoys it so much they start turning up every week.
Looking in the right place.
If all else fails you decide to place an advert somewhere looking for help
” HELP ME PLEASE I AM DROWNING IN A SEA OF SCOUTS………………”
How you say and where you say it is key. I would suggest looking at a site like Do-it this site www.do-it.org.uk is a volunteer recruitment website so half the battle is completed those people who are looking at the site are looking for volunteering position. They want to help out, you just entice them to support you.
“TWO HOURS A WEEK AND ALL THE MARSHMALLOWS YOU CAN EAT”
who could refuse that.
No matter which option you look at or the many other options available the key is to understand that it is in the way you ask for help, none of these options will work unless
- You understand what exactly what help you need and you tell people exactly what help you want.
- Your able to let go, once you have given that task to someone else.
- Accept that if it is one hour or fifty hours the support they give is valid and useful.
- Right Royal Flexible Volunteering (jabbering.co.uk)
- Duchess of Cambridge Scouting volunteer: Scout Association’s Bear Grylls happy (examiner.com)
- U.K.’s newest Scouter: Kate Middleton (scoutingmagazine.org)
- Kate Middleton Covers ‘Scouting’ Magazine (celebs.gather.com)
- Kate Middleton: A Royal, Scouting Role Model (thehollywoodgossip.com)
- Flexible volunteering (johncmay.net)
- Why flexible volunteering is for everybody (Chief Commissioners Blog – scouts.org.uk)
- Kate Lands Scouts Magazine Cover (people.com)